Perangai Anak-anak saya

Having 3 kids meaning that we have to dealt with 3 different personalities. Sometimes they can play in harmony, sometimes the personalities clash, sometimes they can be in peace with each other and the next 5 minutes ready to kill one another.



Tasya is developing her own identity, she can easily express how she feels to you either verbally or in written. She writes song to express her feeling and lately she into dear diary moment. She will write how she feels, what she did, etc in her little diary. One day, after dinner- i accidently found this entry that makes my heart melt and I feel so guilty. In this page, she wrote
" Dear Diary
Today I was so sad, do you know why? because my mom is mad at me-she is always mad at me"
I was close to tears after reading that- I showed that to Amli-who just looked at it and laugh. I was so sad, i keep asking myself-am i a bad mother? Did I scold her the most. I was so sad, but Amli told me that I shoud be proud because at the age of 6, she can express her feeling well enough. She can deal with her feeling rather than let it all inside her. But why she can express her saddness with me while nothing on Amli( who BTW scilded her more than I did. May be that's her strategy because nowadays when I want to scold her I keep thinking about the "dear diary moment"



Abang is another character all together, one minute he can be an angle, the next minute he can throw tantrum like nobody business. Every day when he woke up we must be very careful not to disturb his mood, once disturbed it's very hard to calm him down. So far I'm the only one that managed to do this.

Abang can be cheeky if he wants to-sometimes he will tease Tasya, there was one day,both of them were playing then suddenly Tasya Screamed-" Mama tengok Abang nie", I asked her what Abang did to you. She replied" Dia kentut depan Tasya"( He farted in fornt of me). I was like what?? Then I witnessed this myself, he farted in front of Tasya then asked Tasya to smell it-how disgusting is that?? Sometimes without any reason he will pull Tasya's hair, kick her, and then teased her when she cries.

Abang can be mean to adik too, when Adik was drinking from her drinking cup-Abang will just grab it while Adik was still drinking-Adik of course will scream but Abang with his muka selamba will totally ignore Adik. There were times that Abang is kind to Adik, there were nights that Abang will make pat adik to sleep, he will sings to adik and play with Adik.

Abang favourite song now is one song form CARS OST, and Europe's Final Countdown, He will sings it all time.



Adik is very special to us, she is easy to look after, she is very happy kid and she is just plain adorable. She is very determined kid, very smart. There is one time that she wanted to get something from the dining table, she knows that she cannot reach for it because if the chair, what she did was she pushed the chair, and while doing so there is a movement from the top of the table and the thing moved closer to her, she then stand on her toes and voila she got the thing. She is very special in every way-she goes to her school every Saturday. This time she is very reponsive to the theraphy, she did waht the theraphy ask her to do providing that we are not in the session, if we were she will cry and keep looking at us as in askingto be rescued. The funny this is, she was fine there alone but the moment you went inside to get her she will cry her heart out.

She is also very passionate girl, she will hug you and kiss you and just want to bermanja with you. Once when I slipped down the stairs, she came to me and hugged me-I was so touched. She is indeed someone special to us.